This is the one product that every couple with a wild streak should own. This clever set turns any bed into a bondage playground and comes with both wrist and ankle restraints. First of all, the Under the Bed Restraint System is very discreet when not in use. This means you don’t have to explain it to visitors, kids or roomates. It tucks neatly under the mattress. Plus, it can always be left attached to the bed, so it allows for great spontaneous action. (Who wants to dig something out of the closet when they’re getting worked up and ready for a little light bondage? Mood breaker!)

I realize that bondage of any kind can seem a little extreme for some folks. But it can be verrrrry sexy. The set includes soft wrist and ankle cuffs; they also allow for quick release when needed. But what’s most unique about this product is that it allows for myriad positions as opposed to the ol’ handcuffs on the bedpost (which can be quite painful, too).

The first time we experimented with the Sportsheets Under the Bed Restaint System, we used the standard “X” configuration. My man enjoyed seeing me sprawled out in plain view. I enjoyed being able to lay back without pressure to please him at the same time. I must say, however, that the anticipation of what was to come was driving me wild. While I was tethered down, he spent a good deal of time kissing and caressing. I strained lightly against the restraints. After things heated up, he began licking at my clit, and in a short time I was absolutely soaked with pleasure. Then he shifted his pelvis toward my head with one of those hard-ons that feels like marble. I could tell that tying me up was an incredible turn-on for him, too. I wanted to bust of of the restraints and mount him.

And this is where a little bondage is great, if you’ve never done this. It forces you to slow things down, to take your time, to tease - half the fun is in the anticipation of what will happen next.

With his waist at eye level, I moved my mouth onto his hard cock, then laid my head back so that he could lightly thrust. This is another interesting note - I knew that I had to trust his depth of penetration in this position. This is where it is important to ensure that you trust your partner and that you have some basic guidelines when experimenting with bondage.

After this tremendous forplay session, he unlatched my ankles from the restraints and attached them to my wrists. This allowed for deep penetration but without the exhaustion that comes from holding your legs in the air. This is just one example of how many different ways the restaints can be configured.

I could go on and on about the positions we’ve come up with - because this item has never left our bed. But you’ll just have to come up with your own. One things for sure: Johnny Cash was right when he sang about being ”bound by wild desire.”